The
Men's Referral Service is confidential and anonymous.
What is family violence?
There are many forms of family violence and controlling
behaviours.
All forms have the effect of intimidating and degrading others.
Types of family violence and controlling behaviours can
include:
PHYSICAL
punching, hitting, shoving, kicking or injuring with weapons.
SEXUAL
forcing or demanding sex or sexual acts which your
partner does not wish to perform.
VERBAL
harassment, put downs, insults, comments intended
to humiliate, and name calling.
SOCIAL
not allowing your partner or child to have friends, isolating
them from other family members, denying them access to the car or telephone and making public insults.
FINANCIAL
expecting your partner to cope with inadequate money
and not sharing the family resources fairly.
EMOTIONAL
using threats or manipulative behaviour,
such as threatening to leave or commit suicide, unless you get
your way.
SPIRITUAL
putting down your partner's religious or spiritual beliefs,
preventing her from attending religious gatherings.
MALE PRIVILEGE
expecting your partner or child should obey or serve you,
or that your opinions, feelings and actions are more important
than theirs.
Remember, there is a place that men can call...
Men's Referral Service
for free and independent advice
(03) 9428 2899 or
STD Freecall 1800 065 973
12noon to 9pm
Monday to Friday
This service is confidential and anonymous.
Men's Referral Service Inc.
Office: PO Box 417
Richmond, Victoria,
Australia 3121
Telephone Admin: (03) 9428 7264 Fax (03) 9428 7513
email:
vnet@vicnet.net.au